The Way They Play eBook

The Way They Play is a gentle, practical guide for parents, caregivers, and educators who want to better understand and support the way autistic children engage in play.

Written by an early childhood teacher in Aotearoa who is also autistic, this ebook centres respect, connection, and child-led experiences. Rather than trying to change how children play, it offers guidance on how to observe, support, adapt, and celebrate play in ways that feel safe and meaningful for each child.

Inside, you’ll find:

• An overview of autistic play and sensory differences

• Guidance on sensory seekers, sensory avoiders, and regulation through play

• Practical, low-pressure play ideas that support connection and engagement

• Strategies for when play feels challenging or overwhelming

• Sensory-friendly alternatives for common materials

• A resource and sourcing guide, including preloved and budget-friendly options

• Safety considerations and adaptable ideas for home or preschool settings

This ebook is not a checklist or therapy programme. It is a supportive, autism-affirming resource designed to build confidence, understanding, and connection through play.

Perfect for:

• Parents of autistic children

• Home-based and centre-based early childhood educators

• Parent-led preschool families

• Anyone wanting a more compassionate approach to play

Please note this is a digital product, no physical product will be shipped.